In this heartfelt tribute, I remember Ms. Carrie Wynn-Jacobs, my Georgia mother, who became a guiding light in my life. From her warmth and wisdom to the unconditional love she gave me and my children, Ms. Carrie played a pivotal role in my journey as a young mother. She shared her life stories, gave advice, and filled my heart with lessons on strength and womanhood. Though we’ve lost touch over the years, her memory lives on, and I’ll always cherish the bond we shared. Her passing leaves a deep void, but her beautiful soul continues to inspire me every day.

As DiscoverMe month comes to an end, I reflect on the revelations I’ve had about myself and the challenges in my life. From recognizing the need to show more gratitude to confronting the rising costs of living, particularly in housing, I’ve learned that even in difficult times, there is room for appreciation. Despite the increase in rent, utilities, and groceries, I’m committed to becoming a homeowner and not letting the fear of inflation control my future. This journey has reminded me that gratitude and a focused mindset are key to overcoming life’s hurdles.

As a Black woman with big dreams and bougie taste, I’ve often felt stuck, unable to move past invisible boundaries. I’ve watched others overcome their stagnation with the help of loved ones, but for me, motherhood and lack of focus have kept me in a constant state of frustration. Despite the challenges, I’ve realized that I don’t have to choose between being a mother and chasing my dreams. It’s about taking baby steps and finding balance. My advice: if you feel stuck, hit pause, reassess, and find new ways to push past the plateau. Don’t let life’s hurdles dim your light.

In 2011, I found myself in a dark place, lost and overwhelmed by chaos. I decided to take control and rediscover who I was, starting with 30 days of self-reflection. This journey became an annual tradition I call “DiscoverMe Month,” where I evaluate my growth, set new goals, and embrace both the painful and rewarding aspects of self-improvement. Though it’s a difficult process, it’s been key to my mental self-care, helping me confront my past, heal, and move forward with purpose. If you’re feeling stuck, my advice is simple: do the work to rediscover yourself and embrace the transformation.

After months of being consumed by someone else’s mood swings, I realized I had neglected my own well-being. In an effort to regain balance, I decided to turn my attention back to myself during my DiscoverMe month. This period of reflection allowed me to refocus on personal growth, family, and my aspirations as a blogger and entrepreneur. In this post, I share how I’ve learned to set boundaries, embrace my flaws, and prioritize my own journey toward self-improvement.

In this heartfelt tribute, I celebrate the unsung superwomen who play pivotal roles in children’s lives, offering love and care that goes beyond biological ties. My great-grandmother, Ora Bell Kelley, exemplified this selfless love, raising me as her own and sharing her wisdom. Though I later learned she wasn’t my biological mother, our bond remained unshaken. This post honors the women who, like Ora Bell, nurture and guide with unwavering devotion, showing that love transcends bloodlines.

In this insightful post by 12-year-old Sasha, she explores the concept of maturity and intelligence from a young person’s perspective. Reflecting on her own growth, she talks about the balance between staying a kid and maturing quickly. Sasha also addresses how today’s generation is often underestimated for their intelligence and how being smart can sometimes surprise adults. She encourages other young people to embrace their intellect confidently, while being respectful and understanding toward others.