In this post, the author reflects on the complexities of marriage and divorce, acknowledging how external opinions can complicate an already difficult decision. Drawing from personal experiences, the author emphasizes the importance of understanding that every relationship is unique and that external pressures should not dictate personal choices. The piece encourages readers to trust their own judgment, make decisions that align with their well-being, and accept the reality of change in relationships, whether it leads to growth or the end of a chapter.

The author reflects on the presidential debate, comparing the candidates’ interruptions to sibling disputes and expressing frustration over the lack of clear, focused discussions. They emphasize the importance of hearing each candidate’s plans for the nation’s future, free from divisiveness and name-calling. The post calls for more informative debates and a civil exchange of ideas to help voters make an informed choice.

As we approach 2021, it’s time to start planning for a brighter future. After a year in quarantine, the excitement of future events like Essence Fest, swimming, and museum visits feels even more thrilling. While normal may seem distant, better days are ahead. For those awaiting vaccines or navigating uncertainty, planning for what comes next can bring comfort. Embrace the future, imagine the possibilities, and look forward to brighter days with hope and anticipation.

In this post, the author shares their reflections on the current state of their personal life, community, and media during uncertain times. From the stress of family dynamics and unemployment to navigating mask debates and the influence of cable news, the author offers a candid look at how these issues are shaping everyday life. Despite the challenges, they maintain a sense of optimism, emphasizing the importance of respecting individual choices and guarding against misinformation.

I’m torn between getting the COVID vaccine or waiting. On one hand, I trust science, but the speed at which the vaccines are being developed makes me uneasy. Many studies take years, and humans can make mistakes, which makes me hesitant. In this post, I share my thoughts on the vaccine and the uncertainty many of us face in making this decision.

Discover the five rules I live by to protect my peace and self-worth, including why I don’t accept repeated apologies for the same offense and how personal growth comes from learning from mistakes.

In this reflective post, the author explores the intersection of religion and the events of 2020, contemplating whether the pandemic is a sign from God. The piece touches on the growing influence of political figures on faith communities, the personal impact of the crisis, and the spiritual lessons that might be unfolding. The author invites readers to reflect on their own relationship with faith and whether humanity has ignored divine warnings.