At 41, I found myself unexpectedly pregnant with baby number seven during the pandemic. Though I had planned to travel once my last child turned 18, life had other plans. Navigating pregnancy brain, preeclampsia, and the demands of motherhood while managing virtual school for my kids was overwhelming. Yet, giving birth to a healthy baby boy in February 2021 brought immense joy. Now, as I adjust to life as a new mom again, I reflect on the challenges of a “geriatric pregnancy” and offer advice to other moms in similar situations: embrace the journey, reduce stress, and don’t forget to take care of yourself.

This open letter to my sons is a heartfelt reflection on the lessons learned throughout motherhood. I apologize for the times I fell short, recognizing the unique paths each of you are on. Dee, Zay, and K, you have filled my life with love and joy, and I now see the importance of nurturing your individuality. I’ve learned that the best way to guide you is with love, respect, and understanding, and I promise to be more present as your mother. I’m proud of the young men you’ve become and will continue to support you in every step of your journey.

Parenting a 4-year-old is a daily mix of challenges and joys. A’Lia, the youngest of six children, brings out a whirlwind of emotions with her energy and cuteness. Whether she’s trying to mimic her older siblings or throwing a tantrum when things don’t go her way, she keeps her mom on her toes. Despite the challenges, the love and laughter she brings make it all worth it. This post reflects on the ups and downs of raising a spirited toddler and the unique parenting strategies that come with it.

In this heartfelt post, the author reflects on the struggles of navigating uncertainty—whether it’s dealing with financial setbacks, the challenges of pursuing homeownership, or the lingering effects of the pandemic. From past mistakes to the weight of anxiety and depression, the writer shares personal experiences of overcoming adversity and the importance of maintaining hope for the future. With a focus on resilience, family, and the determination to build a better tomorrow, the message encourages readers to keep dreaming and working toward their goals, despite the challenges life throws their way.

In this brief but heartfelt post, the author expresses sincere gratitude to their readers and the brave individuals who volunteered for the vaccine trials. Acknowledging the support from followers across social media and thanking those who took risks for the greater good, the message is a reminder of the importance of community and selflessness. The author looks forward to engaging with their audience more in the future and offers a special thank you to those who made a significant impact.

Loyalty is a valuable trait, but when it’s not reciprocated, it can turn into a form of stupidity. In relationships, whether with friends, family, or significant others, we often remain loyal despite repeated disloyalty from others. This post explores the dangers of blind loyalty, sharing a personal experience of betrayal and the lessons learned from it. It encourages readers to evaluate their relationships, set healthy boundaries, and recognize when loyalty is no longer being honored, ultimately protecting themselves from unnecessary hurt and disappointment.

In this post, I share my personal experience voting early in the 2020 elections, overcoming fears and long lines to make my voice heard. With anticipation and reflection, I highlight the importance of voting for change and encourage everyone to get involved in shaping the future, regardless of political views. Your vote matters, now more than ever.